A date with a Dutch guy....
A few weeks ago, I was waiting for my train to Amsterdam to go to church, and I suddenly noticed a guy standing on the platform looking at me. At first I thought, maybe he's someone I should know... like my friend's friend whom I've been introduced but forgotten.. or someone from church that maybe I've forgotten (although it's highly unlikely). After awhile, I thought well... I'm quite sure I don't know him, and I saw him inching closer and closer, and I sort of panic... I thought maybe he saw my new cool pink iPod and wants to steal it, or rob me! (I was in a drama queen mood that day). And suddenly, I saw him next to me and he asked in Dutch how long is the journey by train to Amsterdam. *slap forehead*
Anyway, so we started talking and I was still rather wary of him, still thinking he is some criminal... but I found out he speaks Indonesian and he's a lawyer (or so he says). Sorry... I'm not exactly the most trusting person. And before I got off the train, he gave me his number and I thought well... I'm going to change my mobile number in a few weeks' time, so no harm giving him my number. I can always change my sim card if I find him annoying.
He seems like a nice guy, but then he started saying sending messages saying he thinks I'm beautiful, and he likes me a lot, and he would really like to get to know me better... etc... and that's quite strange in my opinion. I'm not used to such direct expressive stuff... at least not from someone I don't know.
Anyway, after many messages, I agreed to go for a drink with him. He was nice and sweet, but he was pretty direct about wanting to be my boyfriend... and that is pretty suspicious. How can you like someone when you don't even know the person. Well, I told him it takes me a few weeks to a few months before I consider someone my bf... and well... I don't think I ever want to see him again. He obviously wants something else from me... something I do not simply give away....